Community Life

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Community Life

Parish life is formed at the altar and lived out in friendship, service, creativity, laughter and care for one another.

Faith, friendship and fun — shared together

A parish family

There is a place for you

Community is not an extra added to our faith. In Christ we are made one body, learning to receive one another as gifts from God. Whether you enjoy music, conversation, creativity, serving, learning or simply sharing a meal, there are many ways to take part.

Meet, learn and serve

Groups within our parish family

Some groups support our worship, some build friendships and some help children and adults discover new skills. All are part of our common life.

The church bells in one of the parish bell towers Skill and service

Bell ringers

Bell ringing combines teamwork, concentration, gentle exercise and a service to the Church. Both churches have their own bells, and patient tuition is available for new ringers.

Suitable for a wide range of ages and experience.

Members of St Matthew’s Choir enjoying a meal together Music and worship

St Matthew’s Choir

Our traditional mixed choir enriches Sunday Mass, Evensong and the great festivals of the Christian year. New singers who would enjoy serving God through music are warmly encouraged.

Singing faith with spirit and understanding.

Mothers’ Union — Christian care for families Prayer and friendship

Mothers’ Union

A welcoming fellowship centred on prayer, Christian family life and practical concern for others. Meetings include speakers, conversation and time to enjoy one another’s company.

Meetings are open to visitors as well as members.

3rd Ashford St Matthew’s Scout Group Adventure and growth

3rd Ashford Scouts

Beavers, Cubs and Scouts gather through the week for friendship, practical skills and adventure. The group has longstanding roots in the life of St Matthew’s.

Helping young people develop confidence and serve others.

Group details and meeting information

Faith for every age

Messy Church

Children are not merely the Church of tomorrow: through Baptism they belong fully to the Church today.

A child holding a colourful cross made during a craft activity

Create, listen, sing, pray and eat together

Messy Church brings families together to explore a Bible story through crafts and activities, share a short and joyful act of worship, and finish with food around the table. It is informal, friendly and designed for adults and children to participate together.

Usually the third Saturday of the month during term time, 15:00–17:00 at St Mary’s.

Please check the Messy Church page or parish calendar before travelling, as occasional dates may change.

Messy Church details

Church and school together

Our parish schools

We value our close relationship with the schools serving Ashford and Stanwell, supporting children and staff through prayer, worship and a shared Christian vision.

Ashford Church of England Primary School

Ashford Church of England Primary School

A nurturing Christian community founded on love, compassion and respect, encouraging every child to grow in confidence, aspiration and awareness of God’s love.

Stanwell Fields Church of England Primary School

Stanwell Fields Church of England Primary School

A friendly and supportive school community in which children are encouraged to flourish, learn and achieve through God.

Learn about our school links

Glad and generous hearts

Good food, good company and plenty of laughter

We aim to hold a fundraising or social event every month. Some occasions raise money for parish life; others are simply opportunities to relax, celebrate and enjoy being together.

Come and belong

Parish life is better when it is shared

Come to an event, try a group, bring an idea or offer a pair of helping hands. You will be welcomed—and there is no expectation that you must already know how everything works.

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