Forgiveness
We are reconciled with God and receive the assurance that sins sincerely confessed are forgiven.
Come as you are
An encounter with the forgiving Christ
The Sacrament of Reconciliation—often called Confession—is a gift entrusted by Christ to his Church. We name our sins honestly before a priest, express our sorrow and hear the words of absolution: the Church’s declaration that God forgives us.
Confession is not intended to humiliate or condemn. It brings into the light what burdens the conscience, restores our relationship with God and strengthens us to live differently through the grace of the Holy Spirit.
“Receive the Holy Spirit. If you forgive the sins of any, they are forgiven.”John 20:22–23
Grace for the journey
What does the sacrament give us?
The mercy we receive is God’s gift, won for us by Christ—not something we earn by finding the perfect words.
Healing
Grace brings peace to the conscience and begins the healing of the harm that sin causes in us and around us.
A new beginning
With prayer, counsel and penance, we are strengthened to turn again towards Christ and grow in holiness.
A simple guide
What to expect
If you have never made a confession—or it has been many years—the priest will gently guide you. You do not need to memorise everything.
Before Confession
Spend some quiet time in prayer and ask the Holy Spirit to help you see your life truthfully and without fear. An examination of conscience may help you recognise what needs to be confessed.
Beginning
The priest will welcome you and begin with prayer. Simply say that this is your first confession—or how long it has been—and ask for guidance if you need it.
Confessing your sins
Speak simply and honestly about the sins you remember. There is no need for a long story or polished language. The priest may offer brief counsel and will give a penance, usually a prayer or another appropriate act.
Contrition and absolution
You express sorrow for your sins and your intention, with God’s help, to turn away from them. The priest then pronounces absolution in the name of Christ and his Church.
Afterwards
Give thanks to God and complete the penance you have received. Leave the sins you have confessed with Christ: the sacrament is a new beginning, not an invitation to keep carrying the old burden.
A short introduction
How to go to Confession
This brief illustrated video walks through the meaning and practical steps of Confession. It is especially helpful if you are approaching the sacrament for the first time or returning after a long absence.
Who may receive the sacrament?
All who seek Christ’s mercy
Reconciliation is available to baptised Christians who sincerely desire God’s forgiveness and a new beginning.
Part of a healthy spiritual life
Children may receive the sacrament after suitable preparation. It is also a valuable part of preparation for Confirmation or reception into the Church.
- You do not need to be a regular worshipper to ask for guidance.
- Regular Confession can deepen prayer and Christian discipleship.
- Advent and Lent are especially appropriate times, but God’s mercy is always available.
Examination of conscience
Prepare for Confession
Our parish guide explains the form of the sacrament and provides questions for prayerful reflection. Confessions are heard by arrangement with a member of the clergy.
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