St Mary’s and St Matthew’s have survived wars, pandemics, and upheaval—not because of external funding, but through the faith and love of those who came before us.
We now have the privilege—and the responsibility—of ensuring that this inheritance remains a living blessing for generations yet to come.
Leaving a gift in your will is one of the most generous and far-reaching ways you can support the life of the Church. It is an act of thanksgiving, a witness to faith, and a lasting investment in Christ’s mission.
Making a will ensures your wishes are honoured and your loved ones are protected from unnecessary legal stress. For Christians, it is also a spiritual act: a chance to reflect on what we value, and to offer our resources to God—even beyond our lifetime.
A legacy to the parish is a gift of faith and a sign of hope. It helps to:
In recent years, legacies have enabled organ renovations, bell works, and major improvements to our facilities.
You may choose to leave:
Gifts may be directed to specific funds such as the:
The PCC seeks to use legacies for major projects or long-term mission. Where possible, the wishes of the donor and family are taken into account.
Yes. Gifts to charity are exempt from Inheritance Tax and may reduce the overall taxable value of your estate.
We recommend using a solicitor, who can ensure your will is valid and your wishes clearly expressed.
Before your appointment, consider:
If you already have a will, you can add a legacy with a codicil. A solicitor can help you prepare this.
Writing a will can be deeply meaningful. It’s a way of giving thanks, looking ahead, and entrusting the future to God with faith and generosity.
“As a parish, we are enjoying the heritage left to us by previous generations—both in terms of our spiritual life and our beautiful buildings. It is our privilege now to do the same for those who will come after us.”
If you would like to speak informally or confidentially about leaving a gift in your will, Julie Bell (our Treasurer) or Fr Stuart would be very happy to chat with you. Especially if you are considering a specific purpose for your legacy, a conversation beforehand helps ensure your wishes are honoured.
Email: office@smam.org.uk
Contact: The Parish Office, The Vicarage, 99 Church Road, Ashford, TW15 2NY
Telephone: 01784 259093
Sundays
09:30 Parish Mass – St Matthew’s
11:00 Parish Mass – St Mary’s
18:30 Evensong and Benediction – St Matthew’s
Weekdays
Monday 19:00 – Low Mass – St Mary’s (Advent & Lent only)
Tuesday 19:00 – Low Mass – St Matthew’s
Wednesday 12:30 – Low Mass – St Mary’s
Thursday 09:15 – Low Mass – St Matthew’s *
Friday 19:00 – Low Mass – St Mary’s
Saturday 09:00 – Rosary – Online
* Followed by Coffee morning
Registered Charity (England & Wales)
no. 1203323
The Church is a Field Hospital for Sinners.
We emphasise sacramental worship (the Mass or Holy Eucharist) celebrated in a traditional Anglo‑Catholic style,
with strong orthodox teaching and preaching, supportive pastoral care,
a caring parish family, and responsibility to our community and the greater world.
Address
The Parish Office,
99 Church Road,
Ashford, TW15 2NY
Phone
+44 1784 259093
Email
office@smam.org.uk
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